When our son Jensen was diagnosed with Down syndrome (Ds), our first reaction was of sadness and disappointment. I remember finding out at work on a late Wednesday afternoon. I was 20 weeks pregnant and the doctor called me to tell me the results of my genetic testing. I quickly packed up my belongings, and left the building in tears. I didn’t go into work the following Thursday or Friday. Those first few days I was distraught and couldn’t stop crying.
When I look back at this time, I am trying to discern what exactly was at the root of these feelings.
If I’m being completely honest with myself, I have to say these feelings stemmed from the complete lack of information combined with a fear of the unknown. I also felt robbed of having a “normal” life. We had beliefs about what was normal and what wasn’t normal.
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